How to Avoid Spiteful Girls

Cruelness is a big problem in girls, especially at school. Are you suffering under the Reign of Cruel Terror? Have no fear, Nice Girls! Here is your battle plan...  

Steps

1. Find out where the mean girls hang out. In the locker area? Outside the library? In specific corner? If so, avoid that area as much as possible. Don't go over there to annoy them, because that will only lead to many more problems.
2. Learn to spot mean girls. This is hard, as there are many types. Look on how they treat other people, not just their friends and boyfriends.
3. Don't be fooled by mean girls. They might try to win you over, but they will usually change fast, and you will find yourself being taunted about school-wide.
4. Try not to let what the mean girls do get to you. Try to use your words (ex. So, I like it.), but don't retaliate, it just makes things worse.(malicious gossip)
5. If it gets really bad, this is not taunting, it's BULLYING! So tell someone!

Tips

• Try to avoid comebacks, as they are masters at making fake, malicious gossip seem credible.
• Don't lower yourself to cruelness!
• If you are a mean girl: try to stop taunting, it's pathetic!
• Remember that not all good-looking girls are rude. Likewise, they can come in all shapes and sizes.

Warnings

• Don't be rude to mean girls, even if they deserve it, because that makes you mean! (And as I said, it will haunt you!)
• Don't just assume that because they are well groomed and pretty that they are mean girls. This is stereotyping and it will cause problems with any two people or any two groups of people.
• Don't act like you don't care about cruelness because keeping it all bottled up can lead to an explosion which could ruin a lot of friendships and hurt a lot of people's feelings.

 

How to Cope With Spiteful Family Members

 The old saying, “You can choose your friends, but you can’t choose your family,” is very true. We as people, have no decision in the matter of our lineage, especially when you have to cope with family members who tend to be spiteful or malicious. Fortunately, you don’t have to accept this negative behavior. You can learn how to cope with spiteful family members without becoming a spiteful person. Read on to learn how to cope with spiteful family members.

Instructions:

1.  Accept the fact that you are related to a spiteful, sometimes disruptive person. The reality of the situation may be problematic, but it needs to be accepted. Realize that your family member may have mental and/or physical issues that prompt them to act in a spiteful, malicious manner. Although, this is a burden for all those involved, accepting this major character flaw, allows you to act accordingly.

2. Keep your positive attitude. Many times spiteful people purposely try to push your buttons. This is the time to remain calm in the storm. Keep your positive attitude, by not allowing their disruptions to ruin one second of your day.

3. Keep your distance. No one ever said you had to be a "close" family member. By this point, your spiteful family member now has a reputation. Learn to keep your distance and alleviate the possibility or unnecessary drama and confusion.

4. Cut your ties. This is the absolute last step, but it is essential to positive growth as an individual who strives for excellence in their own life. Cutting your ties can be done by limiting your phone conversations, personal interactions and communication. It is for your own good.